I have been thinking since many days what to put in my first post....because after all its my FIRST POST guys!!.....I don't know!!! I am so excited about my blog....Just wondering when this strong impulse of desire for writing has born in me....Thanks to "The Riki "for inspiring me with his blog "Coffee-Blog-Love-Hangout"......anyways to start with I am just putting down something that was wavering in my mind while I was working on my journal paper, The Friendship and Love. just jotting down what I felt....
Whenever this discussion of friendship and love comes, most of my friends tell me that there is a very small margin between friendship and love...... A very very thin and sensitive line which you may easily cross......That's what they told me.....That's what it is shown in the movies I am watching since my childhood......Yeah! I do agree with that!
If that is the case there should not be much difference between how we feel when we are in love and when we are in friendship.......But surprisingly that's not the case either! When I see people who are friends ultimately turned to be lovers, the way they feel towards each other change drastically.......There is as much difference in their feelings as there is between north and south poles......just wondering that how could that tiny and sensitive margin could create such a big difference....
Anyways I am thinking that if someone asks me to put the difference between love and friendship in one literal word...... I will say STABILITY
Whenever this discussion of friendship and love comes, most of my friends tell me that there is a very small margin between friendship and love...... A very very thin and sensitive line which you may easily cross......That's what they told me.....That's what it is shown in the movies I am watching since my childhood......Yeah! I do agree with that!
If that is the case there should not be much difference between how we feel when we are in love and when we are in friendship.......But surprisingly that's not the case either! When I see people who are friends ultimately turned to be lovers, the way they feel towards each other change drastically.......There is as much difference in their feelings as there is between north and south poles......just wondering that how could that tiny and sensitive margin could create such a big difference....
Anyways I am thinking that if someone asks me to put the difference between love and friendship in one literal word...... I will say STABILITY
I say that Love is very sensitive and always rounded up with emotionally unstable feelings.....Highly unstable happiness......Highly unstable sadness....... where as Friendship is bounded with highly stable emotions......That's the GREATNESS of it guys.....That's why I am dedicating my first post to all my FRIENDS..... Sorry if it seems to be controversial to any love birds here.....I am not at all against Love...It is rounded up with unstable feelings but Love itself is not volatile.....
Thank you for taking interest in reading this post....Hope you enjoyed it.....
4 comments:
hey very nice first post.. your ideas are pretty interesting about love and friendship.. :) keep writing... lol
Thank u the Rikiiiiiiiiiii
Hi Sindhu,
I liked all your posts and felt like posting a comment to some of them. But this one triggers a very justified response.
Love in itself is not unstable. When you love there are lot of stakeholders who don't exist or don't care that much when you are just friends. I think that is what makes love so unstable.
Manasa
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